Oh, avatar fans, why do you suck so hardcore sometimes?

I saw that secret and it depressed the hell out of me. Sometimes, I think me and about three other people are the only ones online who a.) ship zutara b.) like Katara c.) are fucking sane.

Also, am I the only person on the planet who can look at a ship I hate and understand why someone else who ship it? And respect that? For some reason, hearing 'how can you even see it?' is so much more demoralizing than hearing, 'I hate/dislike/negative verb of your choice."